Give Up the Crutch of Confirmation.

May 1, 2016 by  
Filed under Learn A.C., New Posts

"Stop Giving Confirmation

in Animal Communication!?"



"Are you serious?"

This is what I asked my I Am Presence one day when I received the guidance to stop giving confirmation to my advanced Animal Communication students.

By "advanced" I mean those who

  • have been studying Animal Communication for several years,
  • have taken several courses with me and/or other professionals,
  • are getting mostly accurate information, and
  • insist on focusing on their doubts about what they get.

My students were rather stunned.

As for me, I had to really think about this to understand why my I Am Presence was insisting on it.

Think about how you learn.

No, I'm not talking about going to school where the teacher tells you what you have to learn to "pass the test" and asks you to regurgitate the information on command.

I'm talking about LIFE, the UNIVERSE, and EVERYTHING.

How do you learn in REAL life.

You have a decision to make.  You're not sure what to do, but at some point you have to make a choice.

As you inch or step forward into that choice, you begin to experience some of the consequences of the choice.  In other words, the universe gives you feedback.

Of course, you're not separate from the Universe.  You're I Am Presence is using the world around you to provide feedback.

So whatever you experience as a result of the step you took is your feedback.

You may find you were very accurate or were slightly off or were totally off the mark.

Whatever you discover is PERFECT because you now have the opportunity to make an adjustment the next time you move forward a step.




to give you confirmation,

you won't develop




I also tell my students,

Assume you're correct

until you find out otherwise.

This assumption tells the universe that you EXPECT to be correct so the universe knows what to manifest in your life.

crutchesIf you believe you constantly need confirmation, that's like saying you need to be on crutches the rest of your life because you sprained your ankle a month ago.  Your ankle is recovered, but just in case ....

Clinging to the crutches won't strengthen your ankle or build your confidence.

If you keep assuming that all or most of your telepathic conversations are wrong, you're sending the wrong message.

Want to guess what the universe will manifest for you in this instance?

I'm a professional Animal Communicator with over 20 years experience as a professional.

Am I always correct?  Of course not.

When my communication is in error, do I beat myself up about it?


Instead, I ask for guidance to understand as much as I can about the error and then I let it go!

This is the natural way in which humans and animals learn anything.

And this is why we are told to "Practice, practice, practice."

Practice without confirmation.


You can't build muscles without using them.

The same rule applies here.

Have fun with it, too.  PLAY with it.  That's how you'll build accuracy.

Tuxie stops scolding.

April 22, 2015 by  
Filed under New Posts, True AC Tales

T.A.C.T --True Animal Communication Tales

by Nedda Wittels
© April, 2015

Tuxedo catTuxedo cat

Why does my cat scold me when I come home?

One of my first Animal Communication cases was solved by teaching my client a way to communicate with her own animal.

My client, whom I'll call Lisa, was a semi-retirement computer software documentor, working 4 days a week.  Every few Fridays, she and a friend would go off for a 3-day weekend to rose festivals because they loved roses.

Lisa lived with her cat, Tuxie, in a house in a small town.  When Lisa began going away for long weekends, her cat, Tuxie, would greet her on her return by "scolding" her, refusing to sit on her lap, and refusing to sleep with Lisa that night.  Lisa didn't understand what was happening.

I asked Lisa to explain the arrangements she made for Tuxie for the times she was away.  She told me that everything was taken care of by a neighbor - fresh food and water, litter box cleaned.  The neighbor would even brush Tuxie, if the cat was willing, as Tuxie knew the neighbor well.

Since my client and I were both working at the same computer software company, I suggested she try something on her own before I talked with Tuxie.

"From Tuxie's perspective," I told Lisa, "you suddenly leave - disappear - and she has no idea what's going on, whether or not you'll return, and what arrangements, if any, you've made for her care.

"Your cat is telepathic.  Even if you think you're not telepathic, animals who live with us can tune into our thoughts and feelings.  If you say your cat's name out loud, she'll pay attention to whatever you say next and pick up the images, concepts, and emotions you're expressing.  So here's what I recommend.

"Sit down with Tuxie a few days before your next trip and explain everything to her just like you might tell a human who lives with you. 

"Tell Tuxie your plans.

  • when you plan to leave;
  • when you plan to return,
  • who's going with you;
  • where you're going;
  • why you're going; and
  • most importantly, the arrangements you've made for Tuxie's care while you're gone.

"Try this and let me know what happens."

Lisa protested.  "What will my neighbors think?" she asked me.

"Don't talk to Tuxie in your yard.  Do it in the house." I responded.  "You don't have to tell your neighbor anything.  This is between you and Tuxie."

Lisa said she'd consider this, although from the look on her face, I doubted that she would do it.

A few weeks passed, and I had forgotten completely about my conversation with Lisa.

One Monday morning I was surprised to find Lisa waiting for me in my office.  She was very excited.

"It's amazing!"  she began, all smiles.  "I took your advice.  I went away this last weekend with my friend and before I left, I told Tuxie everything you had suggested.  She seemed to listen, but I wasn't sure she understood.

"When I got home last night, Tuxie greeted me at the door without any complaints.  She purred and rubbed up against me.  After dinner, we watched TV together and she sat in my lap as usual.  She even came into my bed last night, just as though I'd never been away.

"I can't thank you enough for teaching me about this.  Tuxie was happy to see me and not upset at all with me for being away.  Now I can travel and enjoy my trips without worrying that Tuxie is home fretting."

* * * * *


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Animal Communication: Develop Your Ability With Practice

November 21, 2012 by  
Filed under Learn A.C.


Blogging with Pea Horsley

There is no short cut to communicating accurately with animals.

Like learning any new have to put in the practice! An athlete or dancer only becomes an exceptional athlete or dancer through focused dedication to their craft and countless practice sessions to hone their skill. The same is true when learning the subtle art of intuitive, telepathic communication with animals. Put in the effort and you reap the rewards.

This is why I offer you a practice class where you can put in the practice and reap the rewards. A session where there is no pressure of end result, no need to be right, you can just surrender to the grace of the animals and open your heart in a willingness to share this special connection.

Here are some tips on 3 quite common blocks.

Block 1 -- Too much monkey chatter, no focus, lack of concentration.

  • Really enter the silence.
  • Use your breath as a meditation.
  • Bring all of your awareness to your breathing.
  • Every in breath and every out breath.
  • Count each breath in and out as 1, then continue until you reach 10.
  • If you find your mind drifts and you are thinking about something else, begin again at 1.
  • This is actually harder than it sounds and is excellent discipline into focused awareness.

Block 2 -- Trying Too Hard

  • This occurs when there is too much focus on achieving, rather than BE-ing.
  • You find yourself too much in your mind and need to shift your focus to your heart.
  • Move your focus by adopting an attitude of gratitude.
  • It will achieve a shift in consciousness to one of receiving.
  • By feeling gratitude, your heart will automatically open.

Block 3 -- Lack of Trust

  • Often the ego will come in and sabotage.
  • Adopt 3 buzz words that will help you trust your ability to communicate.
  • Create 3 words, the very first words to come to you, words that are important to you and will empower your communications.
  • Write them down, stick them on your mirror, on your fridge, wherever you do your communications.
  • And when you have a wobble, when you think you can't do it, look at those 3 words and start over again.

Pea Horsley
Animal Communicator Teacher & Author
020 8696 9121
Author of "Heart to Heart"-

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