A Case Study.
Why was this magnificent male
urinating outside the litter box?
When Renie Morris contacted me on November 30, 2016, about her beloved cat, Viggo, she was, to use her own words, "in desperation."
Although she had worked with me for a few sessions in 2015 to change Viggo's inappropriate urination behavior, the situation with Viggo had deteriorated over time.
THE "DESPERATE" SITUATION
Viggo is an elegant black male cat. He was found by Renie and her husband, Ross, at a veterinary office where his family had left him to be adopted. He was around 2 years old. At that time, Viggo used the litter box consistently.
About a year later, Aidan, a lovely male, orange tiger kitten, came to live with them. Aidan and Viggo integrated well. It wasn't until Aidan was about a year old that Viggo began urinating outside the litter box.
Over the following 3 years, Viggo had episodes when he would urinate inappropriately and then return to using the litter box. His preferred spots were on a queen-sized bed, a day bed, and finally, a brand new sofa. The sofa was a kind of "last straw" for Renie and Ross.
Viggo had not had any UTI (urinary tract infections), so further investigation was needed. The frequency of his inappropriate urination had increased over time, and was now intolerable for his other family members.
Viggo's relationship with Aidan deteriorated. Aidan likes things clean and neat, and was expressing his displeasure at finding urine around the house by attacking Viggo. Renie's husband, Ross, was losing patience with the whole situation and was asking that Viggo be caged. This is where things were when Renie contacted me on November 30, 2016
Renie was open to trying a variety of approaches to resolve the situation because of her strong heart-bond with Viggo. I was willing to creatively brainstorm and ask for higher guidance for assistance.
Ultimately, a combination of approaches applied over time and overlapping each other have brought about significant changes.
Viggo was already receiving homeopathic remedies chosen by Dr. Loops, a veterinarian trained in that approach. According to Renie, Dr. Loops felt that Viggo was compulsive in his behaviors. While the homeopathic remedies helped Viggo in many ways, the chronic peeing outside the litter box continued, and Dr. Loops could not promise that homeopathy alone would resolve the issue.
Although I had spoken to Viggo in 2015, we began in December, 2016, with Animal Communication. Viggo needed to understand how desperate his family was to help him. He needed to commit to wanting help.
Viggo did understand his humans' unhappiness, but didn't feel that he could stop himself from peeing on the sofa that Renie and Ross had just purchased. During the months that followed, I continued to work with Viggo and Renie.
Aidan had started attacking Viggo when the inappropriate urination become chronic. One of the first things I did was to negotiate, as much as possible, a peaceful settlement between the two cats. To support this, I suggested flower essences for both the boys, as each needed different ones.
Viggo is extremely sensitive to how others are feeling, so I suggested to Renie that calming the energy of the house might be helpful. Misting the house with Rescue Remedy once a day after she and her husband return home from work might make a difference.
We also discussed other things she and Ross could do to keep the energies at home more peaceful, such as clearing their own energies when returning home from work.
In addition, Viggo was given flower essences for developing clearer and stronger emotional boundaries.
THE EMOTION CODE™¹
By December, 2015, Viggo's inappropriate peeing behavior had not significantly changed, although his overall attitude towards life was better.
At the time I was training to become a Certified Emotion Code™ Practitioner². I explained to Renie how the system worked and suggested that clearing trapped emotions and removing Viggo's heart wall might help change his behavior. Both Renie and Viggo agreed to try it.
"PHANTOM LIMB SYNDROME" IN DECLAWED PAWS
In my experience as a professional Animal Communicator, I have found that some declawed cats experience phantom limb pain, just as a some humans do after losing a part of their extremities.
Viggo had told me that his paws hurt. A cat with painful paws may find certain types of cat litter uncomfortable. I decided to check with the Emotion Code™ to see if there were emotional blocks in Viggo's paws that might be contributing to his discomfort.
Sure enough, he had emotions in both forefeet that had been declawed. By releasing all the emotions trapped there, we eliminated Viggo's phantom limb discomfort.
TAKING DOWN VIGGO's "HEART WALL"
In over 20 years of working as a professional Animal Communicator, I have found that many animals who have been in rescue situations have put up protective walls around their hearts. These are actual walls around their hearts that were created to prevent the physical/emotional heart from breaking.
Heart Walls are a form of protection, but can also become a barrier to giving and receiving love. When we are unable to let love in, we often develop behaviors that get us attention, even if the attention is negative. That's what a compulsive behavior does, i.e., it's an inappropriate way to ask for attention and love.
The first step was to take down Viggo's heart wall, which was 2 inches thick.
After only 2 Emotion Code™ sessions, Viggo's Heart Wall was completely gone. However, he needed a month to integrate this change.
To help him feel protected, I installed an energy shield that would help him keep out uncomfortable feelings that belonged to other people. Renie agreed to remind him each day to make sure his shield is activated.
ADDING A SECOND LITTER BOX
Over many years of having cats myself and working with clients' cats, I've learned that when you have more than 1 cat living indoors, you often need more than 1 litter box. The typical rule for cats who live entirely inside is
# of litter boxes = # number of cats + 1 (one)
In other words, for 2 cats, you need 3 boxes.
Sometimes you can get away with 2 cats sharing one box, but if you have a cat who is urinating inappropriately, having at least 1 box per cat in 2 different locations may make it possible for each cat to have his or her own private spot. For some cats, privacy is essential.
So Renie got a second box. Renie showed the box to Viggo and Aidan, and encouraged Viggo to use it. Within a few days things began to shift. What surprised both Renie and me was that Aidan began using the new box, while Viggo began using the old box more regularly to urinate. Of course, as long as Viggo was using one of the boxes, Renie and Ross were happier.
ELIMINATING COMPULSIVE BEHAVIORS
With Viggo's heart wall gone and Viggo feeling safe and more love, I was then able to release the energy of his compulsive urination behavior. All living beings need attention, and psychology has demonstrated that negative attention is better than no attention at all.
In Viggo's case, he was getting plenty of attention from Renie and Ross, but the heart wall had kept much of it at a distance. With his heart wall gone, it was no longer necessary for Viggo to seek negative attention.
With the energy of the compulsive need gone, Viggo could consciously make some new choices.
"DON'T EXPECT THINGS TO CHANGE QUICKLY OR IN A STRAIGHT LINE"
As I worked with Viggo and Renie over the weeks and months, each step we took, each technique used, and each aspect healed contributed to helping Viggo shift into a new way of living. No one thing that was done would have been enough to resolve the situation.
With each step, Viggo would change in some way. He might become more playful, or more affectionate, or more relaxed. He might use the litter box more frequently, but then go back to using inappropriate locations.
There is no magic pill or incantation that will resolve inappropriate urination, especially when the behavior has been going on for a long time. It takes commitment, creativity, and the application of a variety of healing methods to move things along in the desired direction.
AND FINALLY ... OR AT LEAST FOR NOW ...
Viggo's story demonstrates that the road to success may have many ups and downs, twists and turns, and even the illusion of detours before inappropriate urination behavior can be fully resolved.
From my perspective, it's clear that no single approach was enough to completely change Viggo's behavior.
It took a lot of creative thinking and experimentation on everyone's part to come up with the approaches that were taken.
It took a lot of willingness on Renie's part to experiment with different approaches.
Renie's love for Viggo propelled her on, and her determination and love for him were key factors in bringing things to a better place.
Once you accept that there isn't going to be a "quick fix", you are more open to creating the real solution that will enable a cat to have a happy, loving life.
On February 17, 2017, Renie wrote to me,
A week has passed and it's been quite uneventful. Viggo has been using the bedroom litter box every couple of days and in between goes in the bathroom one. Still not going in the wrong places. He had his [homeopathic] remedy today and we continue to tell him to keep his shields up. He is acting very outgoing and loving and he and Aidan interact a lot.
Thanks again. I'm a lot more optimistic now.
In my mind, Viggo is still a "work in progress."
Only time will tell how this situation will ultimately work out. For now, the important thing is that Viggo has made a great deal of improvement in his letter box usage, and everyone is optimistic that he will continue to do better.
¹ The Emotion Code™ is the creation of Dr. Bradley Nelson. For more information about this approach to healing, visit http://www.theemotioncode.tv
² I am now a Certified Emotion Code™ Practitioner and am using this technique with both my animal and human clients. If you would like assistance for yourself or for one of your animals, please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Have You Ever Merged with a Squirrel?
Well, I did, and ...
It was a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
I was immediately dizzy.
It felt like my head was spinning.
I had to pull back from the merge.
I had to sit down in a chair.
After grounding myself and regaining my balance, I asked the squirrel what it had felt.
The squirrel said it was fine ... just a little confused because I was so much slower than it was.
And that was the key.
We think that animals live at the same speed we do.
We know that many have shorter lifetimes than humans.
Maybe animals EXPERIENCE their lifetimes as just as long or just as short as ours feel to us?
Perhaps squirrels and other animals live at a faster vibrational frequency than most humans, or at least than I do.
Today, I've been reading a blog post by David Wilcock in which he explores how animals and humans perceive different speeds of flashing lights.
The speed at which something is shown to you can register in your mind without you "seeing" it with your eyes. In this way, you can be "programmed" because the images and words are reaching directly into your subconscious mind. This is called "subliminal messaging."
The thing about subliminal messages is that your Conscious mind doesn't know they are there and that you're being influenced by them.
Physicists tell us that everything is in wave form until Consciousness perceives it. At that instant, the wave becomes a particle and appears to have form.
So what you perceive isn't there until you look at it.
Which means that the universe and all that we perceive is really flashing in and out of our perceptual range all the time.
Maybe squirrels see the universe differently because they are seeing things we can't see? After all, dogs and elephants hear sounds we can't hear, right?
Are you feeling "squirrely" yet?
If you're practicing your animal communication by merging with animals, you might bring this up for discussion.
How does the animal with whom you're merging experience your rate of vibration compared to their own?
Please share you experiences by commenting on this post.
My own dog snubbed me — again! In fact, it was the fourth or fifth time since I started down the path of learning animal communication a year earlier that Gingersnap left the room just as I was trying to telepath or practice some energy work with her. As she was my original motivation for wanting to learn this skill, this turn of events was disappointing.
How could it be? How could I be failing at something I put so much into? I had the drive, the desire, the enthusiasm, the love, the intention.
And it turns out, that was the problem!
The revelation came just a few moments later when I reported this latest incident to my psychic wife, who immediately had a little chat with our furry girl. Turns out, Ginger was afraid. Animal chakras tend to be larger and more open than ours, and so they often are much more sensitive to the energies they encounter. My excitement — my willpower — was overbearing and too much for her. Her personality, as she explained to my wife, requires a much more calm, gentle, slow approach.
And, of course, it makes perfect sense. Just like humans, animals are individuals and each has a different personality, tolerance, and preference. Your enthusiastic energy might be perfect for some, but off-putting to others. This disconnect could be causing some of your animal communication misfires!
How Would You Feel?
Imagine walking by someone's house and suddenly a bright, cheerful woman bursts through the front doorway and heads directly for you. "Hey! Good morning! Isn't it a GREAT day?! Are you having a wonderful walk? Do you want to come in and chat? Oh, where did you get that beautiful sweater? Do you like these flowers I planted?!" Even to an extrovert, her energy and approach may be overwhelming. You may unconsciously take a step or two back, cringe or recoil, or even run!
Successful communication is a two-way street. To blossom and flourish, both sides need to feel comfortable.
A more thoughtful approach might have been if the woman popped her head out of the doorway and gave you a friendly wave and a smile. You might wave and smile back, and feeling comfortable, add in a "good morning!" Perhaps that would open the door to a longer conversation or maybe it would be just enough to prime a future exchange — after several days of just the smiles and waves.
Just because you decide you are going to try to telepath with a particular animal doesn't mean they are ready for that, or that it's the right time, or even that your communication style and energy are right for building this bridge. A calmer, gentler, slower approach may be the perfect place to start until you understand your animal friend's comfort level.
Since my dog "taught" me this, I've noticed how true it is. In fact, as I wrote this sentence, she came and put her head right on my lap in confirmation!
Another Cat-astrophe Averted!
But I'm also thinking of my friend's very skittish cat, Hoodie, who I see every so often when my friend and I get together at his house for a weekly music jam. While the dog and even the other cat in this household love my visits and always stop by to hang out with me, Hoodie stays outdoors, runs to hide when I arrive, and rarely shows his face. He does that with everyone! Early on, I fantasized that I would use telepathy to reach this cat — to make a connection and be one of the few humans in his life who he would be comfortable with and actually want to say hi to. But even after months of trying, earnestly appealing to him using my budding animal communication skills, no luck!
Until one day I stopped trying so hard. I stopped putting out that willful energy that "I'm going to make this happen" and "If I'm just enthusiastic and friendly enough, he'll come around."
When I stopped projecting all that and just settled into my natural gentle, quiet nature, you might guess what happened. I got a long visit from him — indoors, even! And to my friend's disbelief, it wasn't the only time. Hoodie just needed a different approach to make him feel comfortable. I took the time to understand his style and it paid off.
Everything animate and inanimate — including thoughts, beings, and objects — is made of energy. Being able to sense and read it, becoming aware of the kind you are putting out there — and the kind those around you need — could be your next breakthrough in successful animal communication.
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Josh Coen is a learning animal communicator who has spent a lifetime taking the road less traveled, seeing perspectives from others' shoes, and discovering that each of us has a different path and style and what works for one person may not be right for another. He created the free animal communication practice site with that in mind: http://www.TalkToAnimals.weebly.com