Viggo and the Litter Box

March 1, 2017 by  
Filed under Litter Boxes, New Posts

A Case Study.

The beautiful Viggo.

The beautiful Viggo.

Why was this magnificent male

urinating outside the litter box?

When Renie Morris contacted me on November 30, 2016, about her beloved cat, Viggo, she was, to use her own words, "in desperation."

Although she had worked with me for a few sessions in 2015 to change Viggo's inappropriate urination behavior, the situation with Viggo had deteriorated over time.

THE "DESPERATE" SITUATION

Viggo (black) and Aiden (orange tabby.

Viggo and Aidan

Viggo is an elegant black male cat.  He was found by Renie and her husband, Ross, at a veterinary office where his family had left him to be adopted.  He was around 2 years old.  At that time, Viggo used the litter box consistently.

About a year later, Aidan, a lovely male, orange tiger kitten, came to live with them.  Aidan and Viggo integrated well.  It wasn't until Aidan was about a year old that Viggo began urinating outside the litter box.

Over the following 3 years, Viggo had episodes when he would urinate inappropriately and then return to using the litter box.  His preferred spots were on a queen-sized bed, a day bed, and finally, a brand new sofa.  The sofa was a kind of "last straw" for Renie and Ross.

The new sofa.

The new sofa.

Viggo had not had any UTI (urinary tract infections), so further investigation was needed.  The frequency of his inappropriate urination had increased over time, and was now intolerable for his other family members.

Viggo's relationship with Aidan deteriorated.  Aidan likes things clean and neat, and was expressing his displeasure at finding urine around the house by attacking Viggo.  Renie's husband, Ross, was losing patience with the whole situation and was asking that Viggo be caged.  This is where things were when Renie contacted me on November 30, 2016

Renie was open to trying a variety of approaches to resolve the situation because of her strong heart-bond with Viggo.  I was willing to creatively brainstorm and ask for higher guidance for assistance.

Ultimately, a combination of approaches applied over time and overlapping each other have brought about significant changes.

HOMEOPATHY

Viggo was already receiving homeopathic remedies chosen by Dr. Loops, a veterinarian trained in that approach.  According to Renie, Dr. Loops felt that Viggo was compulsive in his behaviors.  While the homeopathic remedies helped Viggo in many ways,  the chronic peeing outside the litter box continued, and Dr. Loops could not promise that homeopathy alone would resolve the issue.

ANIMAL COMMUNICATION

Although I had spoken to Viggo in 2015, we began in December, 2016, with Animal Communication.  Viggo needed to understand how desperate his family was to help him.  He needed to commit to wanting help.

Viggo did understand his humans' unhappiness, but didn't feel that he could stop himself from peeing on the sofa that Renie and Ross had just purchased.  During the months that followed, I continued to work with Viggo and Renie.

FLOWER ESSENCES

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Pink Yarrow helps prevent us from sucking up other people's emotions by creating a clearer emotional boundary of personal space.

Aidan had started attacking Viggo when the inappropriate urination become chronic.  One of the first things I did was to negotiate, as much as possible, a peaceful settlement between the two cats.   To support this, I suggested flower essences for both the boys, as each needed different ones.

Viggo is extremely sensitive to how others are feeling, so I suggested to Renie that calming the energy of the house might be helpful.  Misting the house with Rescue Remedy once a day after she and her husband return home from work might make a difference.

We also discussed other things she and Ross could do to keep the energies at home more peaceful, such as clearing their own energies when returning home from work.

In addition, Viggo was given flower essences for developing clearer and stronger emotional boundaries.

THE EMOTION CODE™¹

By December, 2015, Viggo's inappropriate peeing behavior had not significantly changed, although his overall attitude towards life was better.

At the time I was training to become a Certified Emotion Code™ Practitioner².  I explained to Renie how the system worked and suggested that clearing trapped emotions and removing Viggo's heart wall might help change his behavior.  Both Renie and Viggo agreed to try it.

 "PHANTOM LIMB SYNDROME" IN DECLAWED PAWS

In my experience as a professional Animal Communicator, I have found that some declawed cats experience phantom limb pain, just as a some humans do after losing a part of their extremities.

Viggo had told me that his paws hurt.  A cat with painful paws may find certain types of cat litter uncomfortable.  I decided to check with the Emotion Code™ to see if there were emotional blocks in Viggo's paws that might be contributing to his discomfort.

Sure enough, he had emotions in both forefeet that had been declawed.  By releasing all the emotions trapped there, we eliminated Viggo's phantom limb discomfort.

TAKING DOWN VIGGO's "HEART WALL"

In over 20 years of working as a professional Animal Communicator, I have found that many animals who have been in rescue situations have put up protective walls around their hearts.  These are actual walls around their hearts that were created to prevent the physical/emotional heart from breaking.

Heart Walls are a form of protection, but can also become a barrier to giving and receiving love.  When we are unable to let love in, we often develop behaviors that get us attention, even if the attention is negative.  That's what a compulsive behavior does, i.e., it's an inappropriate way to ask for attention and love.

The first step was to take down Viggo's heart wall, which was 2 inches thick.

After only 2 Emotion Code™ sessions, Viggo's Heart Wall was completely gone.  However, he needed a month to integrate this change.

To help him feel protected, I installed an energy shield that would help him keep out uncomfortable feelings that belonged to other people.  Renie agreed to remind him each day to make sure his shield is activated.

ADDING A SECOND LITTER BOX

2 cats 2 boxes.

Over many years of having cats myself and working with clients' cats, I've learned that when you have more than 1 cat living indoors, you often need more than 1 litter box.  The typical rule for cats who live entirely inside is

# of litter boxes = # number of cats + 1 (one)

In other words, for 2 cats, you need 3 boxes.

Sometimes you can get away with 2 cats sharing one box, but if you have a cat who is urinating inappropriately, having at least 1 box per cat in 2 different locations may make it possible for each cat to have his or her own private spot.  For some cats, privacy is essential.

So Renie got a second box.  Renie showed the box to Viggo and Aidan, and encouraged Viggo to use it.  Within a few days things began to shift.  What surprised both Renie and me was that Aidan began using the new box, while Viggo began using the old box more regularly to urinate.  Of course, as long as Viggo was using one of the boxes, Renie and Ross were happier.

ELIMINATING COMPULSIVE BEHAVIORS

With Viggo's heart wall gone and Viggo feeling safe and more love, I was then able to release the energy of his compulsive urination behavior.  All living beings need attention, and psychology has demonstrated that negative attention is better than no attention at all.

In Viggo's case, he was getting plenty of attention from Renie and Ross, but the heart wall had kept much of it at a distance.  With his heart wall gone, it was no longer necessary for Viggo to seek negative attention.

With the energy of the compulsive need gone, Viggo could consciously make some new choices.

"DON'T EXPECT THINGS TO CHANGE QUICKLY OR IN A STRAIGHT LINE"

As I worked with Viggo and Renie over the weeks and months, each step we took, each technique used, and each aspect healed contributed to helping Viggo shift into a new way of living.  No one thing that was done would have been enough to resolve the situation. 

With each step, Viggo would change in some way.  He might become more playful, or more affectionate, or more relaxed.  He might use the litter box more frequently, but then go back to using inappropriate locations.

There is no magic pill or incantation that will resolve inappropriate urination, especially when the behavior has been going on for a long time.  It takes commitment, creativity, and the application of a variety of healing methods to move things along in the desired direction.

AND FINALLY ... OR AT LEAST FOR NOW ...

Viggo and Aiden in the cat tree.

Viggo and Aidan in the cat tree.

Viggo's story demonstrates that the road to success may have many ups and downs, twists and turns, and even the illusion of detours before inappropriate urination behavior can be fully resolved.

From my perspective, it's clear that no single approach was enough to completely change Viggo's behavior.

It took a lot of creative thinking and experimentation on everyone's part to come up with the approaches that were taken.

It took a lot of willingness on Renie's part to experiment with different approaches.

Renie's love for Viggo propelled her on, and her determination and love for him were key factors in bringing things to a better place.

Once you accept that there isn't going to be a "quick fix", you are more open to creating the real solution that will enable a cat to have a happy, loving life.

On February 17, 2017, Renie wrote to me,

A week has passed and it's been quite uneventful.  Viggo has been using the bedroom litter box every couple of days and in between goes in the bathroom one.  Still not going in the wrong places.  He had his [homeopathic] remedy today and we continue to tell him to keep his shields up.  He is acting very outgoing and loving and he and Aidan interact a lot.

Thanks again.  I'm a lot more optimistic now.

Renie

In my mind, Viggo is still a "work in progress."

Only time will tell how this situation will ultimately work out.  For now, the important thing is that Viggo has made a great deal of improvement in his letter box usage, and everyone is optimistic that he will continue to do better.

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¹ The Emotion Code™ is the creation of Dr. Bradley Nelson.  For more information about this approach to healing, visit http://www.theemotioncode.tv

² I am now a Certified Emotion Code™ Practitioner and am using this technique with both my animal and human clients.  If you would like assistance for yourself or for one of your animals, please contact me at neddaw@sbcglobal.net.

Is My Missing Animal Still Alive?

November 30, 2015 by  
Filed under Lost Animals, New Posts

Can An Animal Communicator Tell?

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How Can You Tell?

I received an email over the weekend from someone with a missing cat.  Here's what Erica asked me:

My cat has been missing for a while now & we have searched & searched our property & neighborhoods & found no sign of death etc so we truly believe she is still alive & lost!

I contacted 2 different animal communicators that said she is alive & we've searched those areas where they suggested & then some!! Still no luck.  Then in my desperation I contacted a 3rd psychic that said she was in fact out of body.

I am just heartbroken & don't know who I should believe.

I guess my question is can a communicator be wrong when it comes to an animal being dead?  Have there been pets that come back & prove this info otherwise?  I know there are no guarantees, but am curious what my odds are here.  Any info or experience you've had with a reading that's false would be greatly appreciated

The simple answer to this question is, "Yes, Animal Communicators are human and therefore can be in error about any subject, including whether or not an animal is still alive."

Here are a few bits of information that I learned over the years when I was doing lost animal work.

  1. A good psychic is accurate about 80-85%.  No one is 100% accurate.  Anyone who claims to be 100% accurate - I recommend you run rapidly in the opposite direction.

  2. When checking to see if an animal is still alive, the information is only good "in that exact moment" and could be incorrect a few moments later because things often change quickly in these types of circumstances.

  3. The Animal Communicator may or may not know how to get a more accurate answer to this question.  There are different methods.

    I learned to check the physical body itself and the spirit cord, rather than to ask the animal's personality level because the animal may think they are still "alive in the body" when the animal may be "alive in spirit" and not know that the connection to the body has ceased.

  4. It's possible to speak with an animal as they are transitioning out of body.  Alive in one nano-second and disconnected in the next?  Entirely possible.

  5. Finding "evidence" of death, i.e., a physical form, may not happen because there are predators and carrion eaters that may not leave any evidence.  Some people can "track" an animal's path, but again, they are only telling you what they are getting in this NOW moment and most cannot predict the future.

Bottom Line: 

What does your heart tell you?

Even when I've told a client that my best psychic information tells me the animal is no longer in a functioning physical body, I've always encouraged the person to check in with their own inner knowing.  That can be more accurate than my information because the animal is more closely connected with that person than it is with me.

If you are filled with fear, grief, guilt, anger, and other emotions, doing this type of check yourself is very difficult. This is why some professional animal communicators offer "coaching" around missing animals, rather than focusing on trying to "find" the animal.

I no longer do missing animal cases.

Visit Find a Lost Pet Resources

for a list of professional Animal Communicators

who offer lost pet services.

Tracking Lost Animals

April 18, 2012 by  
Filed under Lost Animals

 

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